Friday Favorites #3: Grace, Beauty, Order, Joy

Dear friends,

More links to equip and inspire you in marriage, motherhood, homemaking, home schooling, and your spiritual life!  These ladies are kindred spirits in the pursuit of grace, beauty and order and joy.

Karen Campbell shares much wisdom in this new series...

• Simple Thoughts for Building your Marriage in the Midst of Homeschooling ~ part one 

Sally Clarkson's grace-filled parenting series starts with these three posts...

• Parenting: It all starts with your view of God 
• Adversary or Advocate? Reaching the heart of your child and a giveaway! 
• Filling your soul with love and grace divine 

Sheri Graham provides links for six FREE inspiring and practical e-books on Charlotte Mason style home schooling by Sonya Shafer/  These are worth your time!

• Free E-Books from Simply Charlotte Mason 

Smooth and Easy Days

Education is an Atmosphere, A Discipline, A Life

Getting Started in Home Schooling

Masterly Inactivity

A Thinking Love

The Swedish Drill Teacher

Sarah Clarkson celebrates life to the full and I always love her exuberance!

• Jack Quinn’s & Grace 

Tonia at Study in Brown writes: "A day filled with beauty in every moment, yielded to the One who is Love....my heart was aching to provide that for my family.  I wanted it so badly and yet no matter how hard I tried I couldn't make it happen.  All my life was reacting to this terrible hurricane in the center of our lives, trying to control, control, control and being so exhausted and frustrated...   I needed to stop trying to order the child, and bring order and beauty to the environment."  Read it all here...

• Order and Routine: Making Straight Paths for Peace (part 2) 

Brenda Nuland writes about our need for beauty:

• Sunday Afternoon Tea  A quote on cultivating beauty right where we are: "So much of our journey in this life is out of our hands but that which we can control... our decisions, our attitude when things go wrong, making the decision to trust God rather than letting the seeds of bitterness take root, serving hearty soup in a pretty bowl with homemade bread on the side... instead of complaining there is no money for steak, searching for Beauty while Thrifting, choosing to be thankful for what we have... all coming together to provide the safe and cozy harbor in the crazy world in which we live."

And finally, from my own Virginia's Life blog:

• Weekend Gratitude: Just Beauty  One quote: "As I walked amongst the natural loveliness which had been integrated and even designed into this community, I pondered: "What is it about beauty which feeds and restores the soul?"  A Bible thought floated into my mind -- "May your kingdom come on earth as it is in Heaven!" -- and I instantly realized that all in Heaven is absolute beauty, so part of the calling of a Christian is to bring the beauty of the Lord to their earthly spheres."  (This post also includes photos from the Winter Park Sidewalk Art Festival - enjoy!) 

Let me know what you think of these links, and be sure to add your own favorites in my comment section!

Virginia Knowles

www.comewearymoms.blogspot.com

Soul Food and Friday Favorites

"O God, you are my God, earnestly I seek you; my soul thirsts for you, my body longs for you, in a dry and weary land where there is no water. I have seen you in the sanctuary and beheld your power and your glory. Because your love is better than life, my lips will glorify you. I will praise you as long as I live, and in your name I will lift up my hands. My soul will be satisfied as with the richest of foods; with singing lips my mouth will praise you." Psalm 63:1-5


Dear friends,


Psalm 63 really resonated with me this morning, not because I am always passionate about seeking God, but because I am often not.  What is it that keeps us from the banquet table that awaits those who will just come hungry to the only one who can fill our souls with the right kind of food?  Is it that we can't quite believe the words?  I'd love to hear from you! What do you think?


Now to the Friday Favorites:  Last week I inaugurated a new "meme" -- which I'm guessing is a blogging term for a weekly themed series, especially a theme that you share with other bloggers. The official definition of a meme is "an idea or element of social behavior passed on through generations in a culture, especially by imitation." Whatever.  I did get the idea from other people, and you can take it from me if you want!  My "meme" is Friday Favorites, a short weekly-ish compilation of my favorite links to other blogs.


Here goes:


A Wrestling Prayer by Sarah Clarkson goes right along with my thoughts above. A quote:"Something I have recognized keenly this year, is that struggle can be offered as prayer. The fight to keep faith in God actually being good, when loneliness or dreams deferred, illness or pain accuse him of everything bad, is an act of faith every bit as vital as the usual rounds of study and prayer. A cleansing is what a wrestling prayer offers,  for it chases demons into the light."

Are You a Dreamer or a Keeper? by Sally and Sarah Clarkson pegged me as a dreamer for sure.  I need to work on the keeper side of life, though!  "Different writers tell different stories. Some find glory in the adventure of life, the great journey required of every soul born. Some find glory in the quiet, daily growth of home life, the small, rich details that come from life carefully tended and lived. Both speak truth, both offer us beauty. Both offer a glimpse into the richness of God’s mind."

Simple Pleasures is the result of Julie Druck imitating another blogger in noticing and appreciating what is around her.  "I see . . . A golden orb of moon behind the black-silhouetted woods; pussywillows on my desk from a friend..."

Calvin on Teachers Who, in Their Attempt to be Novel, Do More Harm than Good, by my friend and favorite author Gary Thomas, is very pertinent at the moment, because related to that, from my own Virginia's Life, Such As It Is blog...

Why is Rob Bell So Alarming? Can we handle the Bible message straight up, or does someone somehow need to make it more palatable for our modern ears?  

As you visit these other blogs, I encourage you to poke around and see what else the authors have to say.  Leave a comment if something stirs you.  I love to see comments on this blog, too, so drop me a line!

Blessings,

Virginia Knowles

www.comewearymoms.blogspot.com


P.S. One of my favorite memes of another blogger is Ann Kroeker's weekly feature, Food on Fridays.  Take a peek and add your own food link!

New Friday Feature: Favorite Blog Posts

Dear friends,


Every week, I read dozens of encouraging blog posts via Google Reader.  I'd like to share my favorites with you once in a while.  So, most Fridays -- I won't promise all -- I plan to post links to some of the noteworthy ones that I think will bless other moms like me.


Please note that I am recommending the blog posts, not endorsing the entire theology or practice of any of the writers.  I trust you can use your own discernment as you read...


Let's start with these:

• A Little Story about Grace from Sally Clarkson at www.itakejoy.com  A story indeed -- about one woman who lived and breathed beauty in the midst of darkness.
• The Grace List by Tim Kimmel at www.blog.familymatters.net/  Are you stuck in performance mode?
• Who Are You? by Lizzie Julin at www.submissionisnotsilence.com  "When you delve inside do you recognize innate gifts and strengths and a unique perspective on things?"
• The Language of the Peaceable Kingdom by Tonia at www.studyinbrown.com  How can a mom who continually loses her temper learn to let the peace of Christ rule in her home?

Also, not just one post but the whole blog at Abbondanza di Vita, which my daughters Joanna and Rachel are doing during their three month trip to Italy.  Lots of gorgeous photos!  This one of Vernazza is one of my favorites.

Blessings,

Virginia Knowles

www.comewearymoms.blogspot.com

P.S. You can find my other blogs at:
www.virginiaknowles.blogspot.com
www.startwellhomeschool.blogspot.com
www.continuewellhomeschool.blogspot.com
www.finishwellhomeschool.blogspot.com

Mt. Washmore (Laundry for a Large Family)

Dear friends,


I love the blog Cheaper by a Baker's Dozen that Debbie Pittman writes.  This lady is hilarious.  Debbie is the mother of 11, six of them by adoption.  This morning, she tackled the topic of  Mega Laundry Solutions.  Go take a look -- it will be well worth your time!  She also links to "laundry for large family" posts by several other bloggers.



Meanwhile, I remembered, as I was putting a load of linens into my own washer this morning, a section of a chapter in my first book The Real Life Home School Mom all about laundry.  So here we go!  I definitely need the refresher course since we always seem to have laundry waiting in baskets to be put away.  I think I'm going to try Debbie's tips on doing all the laundry every day and putting the clothes in labeled dish pans for the kids to put away.


Three other related posts from this blog and my main one...

• My Glorious Dishtowel

• Doing the Wash: Grandmother’s “Receet”

• And You Wonder What I Do All Day?

(Photo below is from this last post!)

Clothing the Lilies of Your Field

            Those lucky lilies!  The flowers of the field are arrayed in dazzling colors with velvety soft textures, and they don't even have to do laundry!  If your house is like mine, clothing care is a never ending job.  Here are a few suggestions to make life easier:

            Equip your laundry area or bedrooms with plenty of containers for sorting dirty clothes.  For several years, we used recycled laundry detergent buckets and labeled them for each child, as well as delicate clothes, linens, white clothes, items to be bleached, etc. Now that we have less space in our laundry area since our garage was converted to a bedroom, storage room and office.  I try to keep minimal dirty laundry out there.  The kids are supposed to bring out their clothes when they are ready to wash, and not let things pile up.   I find that sturdy square laundry baskets are much more practical than the larger rectangular ones because they are easier to carry, especially for young children.   We also use smaller, transportable hampers (rectangular trash baskets) for their dirty clothes in their bedrooms.   We have a small hampers in our dining room and kitchen for dropping in wet rags used for wiping the counters, drying dishes, or cleaning up spills.  These get washed every day!

            Round up all dirty clothes and linens after breakfast.  Then sort them into your bins or baskets, and get the first load going before starting school. Try to put away clean clothes the same day they are washed.  If you do a mixed load of all of your children's laundry every day, they may each have only one or two outfits to put away!  My three sons share a bedroom, and I do all of their laundry at once.  I usually sort the clean clothes into separate baskets for them so they can fold and put away their own stuff.  Otherwise, it takes much longer for them to get it done if they do the sorting themselves.

As soon as your children are able, make them responsible for their own laundry.  You will need to show them which washer and dryer cycles to use, how much detergent to add, how to treat stains, and other specific skills.   Children as young as age two can help fold wash cloths, match socks, and put clothes away. Stock up on a few dozen pairs of identical socks to cut down on sorting.  Equip closets with plastic hangers, low rods, and sturdy plastic boxes to make it easier for them to finish the job.

            Lay out clothes ahead of time when you are going out.  This will cut a lot of frustration as you are trying to get the family out the door for a field trip, co-op classes, or church service.  Ideally, you should lay out clothes, shoes, and hair accessories the night before.   If modesty is an issue at your house, make sure that all clothes are approved my mom or dad, too!

            Find good sources for “recycled” clothing.  Garage sales, consignment shops, friends, and family members are good bets.  When you don't pay full price, you aren't as grieved when an item is damaged, lost, or outgrown.  We often find plastic bags with hand-me-down clothes in them next to our van after church, and we’ve been known to do the same thing for others!  It makes sense!

            Teach your children (and maybe the adults too) a few laundry policies.  Here are a few of ours:

♥   Don't go outside in stocking feet. 

♥   Use towels, pajamas, and sweaters more than once before washing.

♥   Take wet or heavily soiled laundry directly to the laundry area.

♥   Turn items right side out and empty pockets before placing in the hamper.  

♥   Never put crayons in pockets, even for a minute! 

♥   Tell Mom about stains and rips immediately so they can be treated before laundering. 

♥   Use a smock or wear old clothes while doing messy projects. 

♥   When you take out anyone’s laundry from the dryer, make sure that you lay clothing such as nice skirts, pants, and shirts nicely across the top of the basket are on a bed so they won’t get wrinkled.  We also want them to alert the owner that their laundry is out so they can get to it promptly.

Your turn!  What do you do to stay on top of your laundry?

Consider the Camellias

 Dear friends,

"Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow;

they toil not, neither do they spin:

And yet I say unto you,

that even Solomon in all his glory

was not arrayed like one of these."

Matthew 6:28b-29

I'm trying to train myself

to be aware of my surroundings,

especially all of the little beautiful things

that I tend to forget

in the daily chaos of motherhood.

Camellias only bloom for several weeks each year,

but since our bush is out of sight in the back yard,

I sometimes miss much of the blooming season,

just because I have forgotten to look.

 

So many of the blossoms end up

fallen, unappreciated, wasted...

But when I do remember,

I can bring the beauty inside for all to enjoy,

floating in water in my wedding crystal.

The camellias now share the table with Valentine roses,

which help me rejoice

in my husband's affection

every time I walk through the room.

I made a goal this afternoon

to walk around our yard and pay attention to the flowers.

Some, like this magnolia (from a year gone by)

won't bloom for a while yet. 

I must take notice, look out and up,

or I will miss this beauty too.

This crepe myrtle left behind

brittle brown buds from last season,

a promise of fresh blooms to come.

This year I decided to plant my flowers in pots

given to me by one who cannot tend

her own garden anymore.

Now I can bring them inside during a cold spell.

They are also up closer to eye level,

and protected from the pests and weeds on the ground.

And I can move them from place to place,

wherever their grace is needed at the moment.

These geraniums grace the garden wall.

Pansies are my lifetime favorite flowers

with cheerful little faces.

In Florida, they thrive in cold weather,

but I never remember to buy some

until well into the growing season.

Mine are in matching pots,

each side of the front walkway.

My hardy little azalea bush delivers year after year.

My husband planted star jasmine bushes many years ago,

hedges of privacy and loveliness and sweet aroma.

My daughter Melody,

a beautiful little blossom on Blossom Lane,

or as her shirt proclaims, a Busy Bee.

Who made these flowers and our sweet children?

This beauty?

The Gracious God who created them, he is beauty.

Take time to see and savor him!

"One thing I ask from the LORD,

this only do I seek:

that I may dwell in the house of the LORD

all the days of my life,

to gaze on the beauty of the LORD

and to seek him in his temple."

Psalm 27:4

Blessings,

Virginia Knowles

http://www.comewearymoms.blogspot.com/

A Woman of Beauty

Dear friends,

When I find myself having a “bad hair day,” or I snap at my children, or things just look dreary, I remind myself of what is truly important for a woman of God. The words to this song were inspired by 1 Peter 3 and Proverbs 31.

A Woman of Beauty
by Virginia Knowles

A beautiful woman is quiet in spirit
Gentle in all that she does.
Adorning the inward part
She trusts the Lord with all her heart
She is a woman of beauty!
She is a woman of beauty!


She does not need ornaments of fancy gold
And it's not in how she fixes her hair.
As long as she's clothed in strength and dignity,
It doesn't matter what else she wears.


A beautiful woman is quiet in spirit
Gentle in all that she does.
Adorning the inward part
She trusts the Lord with all her heart
She is a woman of beauty!
She is a woman of beauty!

~*~*~

There is nothing more attractive in a woman than “the unfading beauty of a gentleand quiet spirit.”But how can we nurture a serene spirit in the middle of the sometimes overwhelming demands of motherhood and home schooling?

 

“The LORD your God is w ith you... he w ill quiet you w ith his love...” Zephaniah 3:17

 

“Be still and know that I am God.” Psalm 46:10

 

“The effect of righteousness w ill be quietness and confidence forever.” Isaiah 32:17

Sisters, I am not at all advocating that a Christian woman become a silent wallflower or a doormat in her quest for inner beauty.  "Quiet in spirit" does not mean she doesn't talk -- just that she is peaceful and peaceable! We need to know when to speak up and speak out with love.  I really like Lizzie Julin's blog Submission is Not Silence.  Lizzie beautifully reminds us that our husbands need our full creative selves, the ones that God created to enrich their lives.   What do you think?  I'd love to see your comments on this!

May the Lord minister to your spirit, making you not just a mom, but a gentle woman of true and lasting beauty.Blessings,




Virginia Knowles
http://www.comewearymoms.blogspot.com/

Beating the Holiday Blues and Stress - and Other Christmas Goodies

Dear friends,

I just wrote a post for my main blog, http://www.virginiaknowles.blogspot.com/, that could just have well gone here, so I wanted to send you the link for it:   Beating the Holiday Blues and Stress

You might also like to read my newest Advent poem there: Invitation to Stillness which is for those of us who get frazzled and busy and out of sorts.

I also have a page on that blog which indexes all of my Christmas articles from all of my blogs.  You can find it here: Christmas!

Joy and peace to you and yours!
Virginia Knowles
http://www.comewearymoms.blogspot.com/

Christmas Gift Tips from Shopping to Shipping

Dear friends,

With so many children, I’ve really had to get organized when it comes to buying, storing, and shipping Christmas gifts. Here are several miscellaneous tips:

Ask each family member to write a Wish List.  Then have them mark each item whether it is "gotta have", "would be great" or "nice but not necessary". Make sure they are specific if they want a certain brand or title of something. Have them copy their final version onto an index card. Using the Wish Lists and your budget (made with your husband), write out a list of what you plan to buy or make for each one. Do each person’s list on a separate index card or notebook page. Also, list relatives and friends, and what you intend to do for them. Finally, list Christmas extras, such as outdoor lights, craft supplies, etc. Estimate prices and add it all up to make sure you won’t go over budget. Allow some buffer for special deals, bad estimates, forgotten items, etc. Then make a list of items for each store that you intend to visit.


Make a Christmas shopping organizer for your purse. Take a manila file folder and open it up so that the crease goes vertically up the middle. Now fold about four inches of the bottom edge up so that makes a pocket. Tape the edges of the pocket on the left and right hand sides. Next, fold the left side in almost half way, and do the same with the right side. Now you have a four panel pocket folder that will probably fit in your purse. Use one section for Wish List index cards, another section for your Shopping Plan index cards, another section for Coupons and Ads and the final section for Receipts. As you buy things, you can check them off your list and add them to a running total.


Wear an extra large hip pack on your shopping trips. This takes stress off your shoulder (if you usually wear a purse) or reduces risk of theft (if you usually leave it in your cart or on your stroller). I like the hip pack because it keeps my hands free for dealing with purchases, packages and children.


If at all possible, go shopping without your children. If you don’t have a teenager or nearby relative who can babysit for you, try arranging with another mom to trade childcare for a few hours at a time. When you do go shopping with children (like when THEY are doing some shopping), remember that stores are very busy and that there may be criminals lurking about waiting for an opportunity to snatch a child. Keep your young ones with you!


Christian books, music and videos make excellent holiday gifts since they can encourage someone in the faith. I have always done a major chunk of my shopping at Christian bookstores, especially using discount cards or coupons.  If you want to get great Christian stuff for a good price on-line, try Christian Book Distributors. 


When you get your goodies home, you have to store them out of sight and out of reach! I label a large paper bag for each family member (either a grocery bag or an old gift bag), open it up so that it stands by itself, and put it on my closet shelf. When needed, I can take it all down and see what I have and what I still need.  I've also been known to stash Christmas presents in a large plastic (not clear) bin in my closet, which is strictly off-limits in December.

When it's time to wrap, work in piles.  If you have several children, you might need to check and be sure you have an equitable amount of gifts per child.  We don't spend huge amounts of money on our kids -- maybe $25 per child -- but I do try to get each of the younger ones several things, even if some of them are from the dollar store.  So some of them may have less packages to open because one or two of their items are a bit more expensive.  When I have finished all of my shopping, I lock my bedroom door and get out all of the presents.  Then I start creating a pile for each child.  I make sure it all looks pretty fair, sometimes shifting an item from one child's pile to another, or deciding that two or more kids can share a larger gift like a game that needs more than one player.  Sometimes, if one child has a whole bunch of smaller items, I bundle them together.  Older siblings often help me wrap, so I just put their stuff out of sight before letting them in the room.

Establish a Christmas wrapping station stocked with paper, tape, ribbons, gift tags, scissors, etc. Give your kids lessons on how to wrap efficiently so they don’t waste too much paper. Or design your own paper and tags with finger paints or rubber stamps. Let your older children assist your younger ones with wrapping presents for Mom and Dad.  If you have bulky or unusually shaped items, try putting them in pillowcases and tying the top with a ribbon.  If you will be mailing packages, be sure to have cardboard boxes and something like bubble wrap to protect the contents.


A few words about postage: You can call the post office at 1-800-ASK-USPS or log on to the web site at http://www.usps.gov/ to find out the cost for mailing any package. You will need to know the weight in pounds and ounces (use your kitchen scale for this), your zip code and the zip code of the destination. If you stock up on lots of postage stamps ahead of time ($1, 10 cent and 1 cent), you can avoid lots of trips to the post office this way. You can also let your children practice "place value" math concepts by deciding which stamps to use. If your package contains ONLY "media", which includes bound printed matter (books, magazines, calendars, and such, but not catalogs or loose papers), audio cassettes, CDs or videos, then you can send it cheaper but may take a little longer to deliver. You must mark these packages as "MEDIA RATE." Also check the price of Priority Mail -- sometimes it costs only a few pennies more than First Class. And always be sure to allow plenty of time for your packages to get there! If the contents of your package are valuable, check into insuring it. It doesn’t cost that much extra.  Or, skip out on shipping packages entirely by ordering on-line and having them mailed directly to the recipient.


I hope these ideas help make your Christmas shopping season a little easier!

Virginia Knowles
http://www.comewearymoms.blogspot.com/

Thankfulness?

When we talk about Thanksgiving, many of us think about the day in November when we get more stuffed than the turkey. Our minds turn to all sorts of cute activities for reminding our families to “be thankful” during this time of year. But as good as this is, it falls far short. Thanksgiving is not just a holiday, but a necessary attitude for every moment of every day.

I think one of the hardest struggles for many home school moms is dealing with grumbling and whining. Wouldn’t it be quite something if we could just sit them down and give them a single lesson about contentment, and “voila!” -- our homes would instantly enter a state of bliss where our children would always cheerfully and sweetly gush their gratitude for all our efforts? We work so hard at teaching them (way beyond the 3Rs), training them (to have upstanding moral character), feeding them (hopefully healthy food) and so much more. What a rude awakening when they start to complain that “all” their friends (“even the home schooling ones!”) get to eat potato chips and Pop Tarts everyday or are allowed to watch whatever they want on TV or have their own fabulously decorated bedroom or that their mother does their laundry (all new designer clothes) for them! Or they think their school work is boring because you haven’t planned thrill-a-minute (as in “expensive” and “time-consuming”) activities every day. Or you are trying to help one child with a complicated lesson, and another one gets frustrated because you can’t help him at the exact same time. Or you patiently try to explain some concept to them, and when they still don’t get it, they vent on you. Don’t think you are the only one who faces this problem! I hear it all the time for other home school moms, and I’ve seen it in my own home. (You didn’t think we were perfect, did you?) To tell you the truth, for all our efforts, we did expect a little more credit and respect. And they SHOULD be grateful. It’s no credit to their own character if they’re not.


Notwithstanding the way they should be, I’d like to address the moms here. As I tell my children, they have responsibilities to act rightly regardless of what others are doing. And the same goes for us. No matter how our children respond to us or what their attitudes are, we need to set some things firmly in our own minds if we want to keep going and still retain our sanity.

First is that we are not home schooling to win the daily applause of our children. We are doing it because we care about how they turn out in the long run and because we have felt called to take primary responsibility for their training and education. When you are challenging someone towards excellence, it’s a very stretching experience for everyone. It goes against our human nature, which wants to be coddled and entertained and free to indulge its own desires. Our children will not always appreciate what we do -- at least not now. It’s tempting to give in to their demands and be over-permissive just to gain their approval, but that’s a trap! It’s our job as parents to set and enforce limits (see Hebrews 12:7-11). But while we should be seeking to influence their attitudes and behavior in the right direction, we must also grant them the dignity of forming their own opinions. (That’s hard for those of us who tend to be “control freaks.”) When your children approach the teen years, you know they will have to start dealing directly with God himself if they are going to go any further in the faith that we have attempted to hand down to them.


Second is that we cannot base our contentment -- our own sense of gratitude and well-being -- on either people or things, which will always disappoint us. That’s difficult to learn for those of us whose identities and images are so bound up in being home school moms. After we put all this time and energy into something, we want things to go just how we planned. In other words, “If I do this step and that and follow this character-building curriculum, my children are guaranteed to be smart, healthy, happy, hardworking, friendly reverent and perfectly obedient -- and I’ll have the reputation as a Super Saint!” Don’t get me wrong -- having great children is a very noble goal and we should try our best. But in the meantime, life goes on! As fervently as we desire to see our children mature, and as much as we rejoice when they do take a few steps in that direction, we just can’t look to them and their progress as our sole source of satisfaction and meaning in life.


The one thing that will satisfy our hungry souls is a deep and abiding relationship with our Gracious Creator. Despite our own sin, our grumbling and our shame, the Holy Father stooped to redeem us lowly ones through the sacrifice of his Son, Jesus Christ, the only perfect child to ever walk the face of this earth. Our souls will find rest and strength in him alone. It is he who will give us the courage and endurance to keep pressing on. It is he who can open our hearts wide so we can truly be THANKFUL for his grace, no matter what is happening around us, all year long.


“Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18


“Therefore, my dear brothers, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.” 1 Corinthians 15:58

“One thing I ask of the LORD, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to seek him in his temple. For in the day of trouble he will keep me safe in his dwelling; he will hide me in the shelter of his tabernacle and set me high upon a rock.” Psalm 27:4-5

(This post is from my archives!  It was written in November 2000.)

My Life is But a Weaving - Making Sense of the Loose Ends of Life

"My Life is But a Weaving"


My life is but a weaving
Between the Lord and me
I do not choose the colors
He worketh steadily.

Oftimes he weaveth sorrow
And I in foolish pride
Forget he sees the upper
And I the underside.

The dark threads are as needful
In the Weaver’s skillful hand
As the threads of gold and silver
In the pattern He has planned.

Not till the loom is silent
And the shuttles cease to fly
Will God unroll the canvas
And explain the reason why.

- Author Unknown

~*~*~

I'm in the process of writing a fairly substantial article called "In the Middle of the Story" for my Hope Chest e-magazine, and it made me think of this poem. There are different versions of it, with the verses in various orders, but the message is the same. We may have lost hope in the middle of our life stories, but we don't know the endings yet. It will all make sense on the other side. Until then, be of good courage! "I don't know what the future holds, but I know Who holds my future!"

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Many blessings,
Virginia Knowles
http://www.comewearymoms.blogspot.com/